I'm so tired of reading posts with titles like "15 ways to know if he's in love with you" and "20 things men think are sexy" because all of these posts assume that every relationship is the same. I've got news, for every relationship to be the same we would all have to be exactly the same people. And I don't know about you, but I am a unique butterfly. Therefore, my relationships will also be unique, beautiful butterflies (unless we are talking about past relationships, those are moths.) And while it bugs me that these articles assume that my relationship will be just like one from a Nicholas Spark's book, what really upsets me is that they encourage us to continue comparing our relationships to everyone else's. We've all been there, scrolling through Facebook and seeing another lovey post about our old friend. let's call them Remy... and their partner. Remy their partner are moving in together. So naturally you click o...